Monday, 30 September 2013

Halloween with a toddler


Well it's the end of September. The stores are filled with spooky decorations, the pumpkin has taken over our coffees and snacks, and the temperature today was shockingly low. All reminding us that of course here in Canada Thanksgiving is close, but more noticeably Halloween is just around the corner!

Mr B not even being 2yet as a rule is not allowed sugar. Last year we took him too the mall for some activities and then home. We may take him trick or treating but we still haven't made a final decision. 

I really wanted to do pumpkin carving. Last year we cleaned out a pumpkin and put Mr B inside for pictures! 


It was cute but not happening this year. So I needed to find something else. It's not safe to have him around knives and he isn't able to draw anything to carve out yet. Thankfully, thanks to a mommy group friend, the answer was shown to me... Pumpkin Painting!

Yesterday now, since its 4am feeding time, we went to a farm and Mr B picked out his own pumpkin! My sister was there too so her son picked one out also. Then during his nap daddy grabbed some permanent  paint and brushes.  Once he was awake we removed his cloth diaper, put him in a disposable and nothing else(except his boots he insisted on wearing) then we went outside to paint! 

This is the first time Mr B has enjoyed painting!! I showed him what to do and he did the rest. He used different colors and got it done. He did try eating the paint a few times but thankfully I stopped him as we couldn't use friendly water colors for something that would sit outside. Also he really wanted to paint himself at the end. I'm glad he had fun there will absolutely be more painting in our near future. 

For those with kids this is a VERY kid friendly activity!! It allows them to be right in the middle of the fun! My nephew is 7 and very much enjoyed it too. It's a cheap and easy way to get ready for Halloween and decorate for fall. 

Make sure if you do this you have a lot of space for mess. We chose outside. Also have a lot of cleaning supplies on hand. We brought out a package of baby wipes so that every time Mr B would paint his belly or fingers we could wash them right away before it stained or he tried to eat it. 

I love finding and doing new things with my babies. This is something we will enjoy doing again over the next few years.


Friday, 20 September 2013

It's My Due Date

Well today is my due date. Which also means that today my Lucas turns one month old! This last month has been a roller coaster ride. So many drastic highs and lows. I'm so happy that he is home! 

It's been two weeks and I haven't fully adjusted my sleep around my babies. Meaning I'm not getting a whole lot. I find I am doing well with balancing my time between them. Mr B loves being a big brother. I am thrilled to be a mommy of two. Gradually the sleep will come. But in so in love with cuddles and my boys that I don't mind. Every minute I'm not sleeping is another moment, memory I'm spending with them. 

I can't believe its been a month. Part of me feels every day and another part feels cheated the two weeks he was in the hospital. I know that as he gets older that two weeks will feel like nothing but for now its still such a big part of his life. I love every day with my family. I wouldn't trade it for anything ❤ 


Thursday, 5 September 2013

Perfectly imperfect

 I just picked up my sons books for the 5th time today. My floors are swept but need to be washed. My house is packed with work in progress renovations. We have large bills that we didn't expect hit us this year. 

But it's 730pm, my hubby worked late and is cooking diner on the BBQ. Mr B is outside with him playing. I love listening to them play. The joy i hear from them is an irreplaceable memory. My tiny Mr L is sleeping soundly in his playpen. I had to write because right now in this moment my life is absolutely perfect. 

I know that we will probably never have a ton of money in the bank. But we are ok. We have debt but its manageable. We also have a house, and a new jeep to account for part of our debt. 

I am frequently overwhelmed by the amount of love I feel for my family. The joy at having everything I've ever wanted. It's incredible that at 25 I had all my childhood dreams come true. Which leaves the skys open for my new dreams as an adult. 

Right now my life may not be perfect, but it is absolutely perfect for me.

Happily living perfectly imperfect forever.